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On the morning of our departure, he was particularly playful. He’d take our things and spread them out around the room as we tried to pack. He’d hand Ellen’s things to me and mine to Ellen. Once we finally had all of our belongings packed away, he blocked the door so we couldn’t leave. Once out of the house with our hiking boots and gaiters on, he clung to my leg and wouldn’t let go. His mother held him back and he started to cry as we headed down to the sala to meet our peers. After we set our bags down, Ellen and I fished out a double stuffed oreo (oreos were essential for forests) and took it back to the house where we spotted our host brother hugging a house support beam, crying. He saw us and turned his head away. We approached and he refused to look at us. I started to rub his back as he cried and he just scooted around the pole away from us. I held the cooking around the opposite side of the pole so as he came around he found it. His face lit up and he snatched the cookie. He screamed to his mother and ran to show it to her. He took a bite and beamed. We started to leave again and his face instantly became sad. A fresh tear rolled down his cheek. When I looked back for the last time and he smiled and held up the cookie.
It was perfect...
The cultural exchange was definitely a highlight with members from each group singing songs to each other. We tried our best to compete with their impressive church choir that sang with in perfect harmony. Perhaps our best act was a 31 person rendition of Bohemian Rhapsody. I thought we were going to break through the bamboo floor (which a few students experienced first hand elsewhere) during the instrumental/guitar rift section of the song. In all, the cultural exchange was a very well spent three hours. We were even able to sing some songs together. The exchange ended with a moving rendition of Amazing Grace, being sung in both English and Backenyaw.
The other half of our ISDSI comrades met us in Huay Hee, which was large enough to accommodate all 35 of us (including instructors). We spent the next several days working on group projects, including a village survey (during which we mapped out the village and tracked its resources), a forest plot survey of rai (acres) at varying stages of fallow, a town meeting, a mid-course seminar on the top of Doi Pui, and a cultural exchange.
Doi Pui was stellar. Towards the top of the mountain, the forests faded away and we made our way through a tunnel of bright yellow flowers, into a large meadow. I remember saying to a friend, “this is the meadow of my dreams!” With wild flowers everywhere, breath taking views and 31 dear friends to share it with, I was elated. At the top you could see the entire province of Mae Hong Son, and even into Burma. We could pick out every village we’d visited and see the places we were going to next. The sun was shining and there was a slight breeze. It was completely perfect!!!!